Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Gotcha Day & Civil Affairs Appt ~

We left the hotel at 9:00 to go to the Civil Affairs office to meet Paityn.  We were taken to a small room with about 12 families, it was so crowded and alot of commotion.  A few minutes later around the corner came Paityn, Phoebe and Makenna (all friends from the same orphanage).  She was really shy, which was expected but did give us a couple cute smiles.  We didn't realize she had several layers of clothing on until later.  She was in long PJ's, a wool sweater, sweat pants and sweat shirt and it was in the 70's!  We had to have a family photo taken by the office but Paityn got really upset and began to cry.  It took a little while for her to calm down just enough to get the photo but after that it was heart breaking...she cried for about 4 hours straight until finally falling asleep.  It was an exhausting and emotionally draining afternoon for all of us. When she woke up we decided we should just stay in the hotel for dinner so Matt & my Dad took a taxi to McDonalds and brought it back.  She ate a nugget, part of a hamburger and a few fries and seemed to like them.  Just wait until she has Chick-Fil-A!!!! :)  She didn't give any problems and crawled right into bed about 10:00 and slept all night!

Today we went back to the Civil Affairs office to make the adoption official.  We took care of more paperwork and received our adoption certificate that states that we are now legally Paityn's parents!  On our way back to the hotel we stopped at Walmart to buy her a pair of shoes.  I had brought 3 pairs for her but I think they were way off when they sent us her measurements because they were HUGE on her!  The only kind of shoes they had in her size were "crocs" but she smiled and said she liked them.  We are now back in the room and she is sleeping.  Some friends we have met (Amanda & Brandon) are adopting an older daughter (Phoebe) she is having a pretty difficult time, PLEASE pray for all of them.  It is so hard to even comprehend what these older girls are feeling being taken from all they have ever known.  It is just going to take time and we are just taking baby steps one day at a time.  Madison is doing GREAT and is really enjoying being able to swim each night.

We just took a taxi to Pizza Hut for dinner and that went really well.  She smiled more there then all day and LOVED the pizza :)  Getting ready to head to the pool to watch Madison swim.
Tomorrow and Wednesday we do some sight seeing.  Will update again soon.



                                                     Meeting Paityn for the first time!



 First Family Shot



Such a Cutie


Finally Asleep



                                                                   She LOVES oranges


    Watching Tom & Jerry
                     

       She also LOVES doughnuts and cake

                                                 
       Madison just chillin' watching a movie


         Loving the IPad
                                                                      


      Madison & Paityn coloring




        Waiting at the Civil Affairs office for Interview
                


Her first taste of Pizza Hut...the most she smiled all day!!

 

8 comments:

  1. It looks like after those initial 4 hours of crying that Paityn is doing very well. I just love the look on her face in the picture of you and she eating the pizza. Too cute. Continued good luck with the bonding. Looking forward to your next post.

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  2. This brings tears to my eyes. I am so thrilled for you. Continuing to pray. Will pray for your friends too.

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  3. Congratulations! So glad you have your new angel with you. Your daughters are beautiful and so wonderful to see them together as sisters. Love seeing those smiles.

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  4. Heather, I love the update and photos!

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  5. We are so happy for you all! Such a range of emotions is brought on through adoption journeys. We will be praying as your new family bonds:) Thank you for sharing this special time in your lives.

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  6. I love her smile! So happy to see this. You have a beautiful family. We're praying for you.

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  7. Praising God for all He is doing! We will definitely keep praying for all of you and the families that are with you.

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  8. Hi,
    Very happy to find your blog today.
    Congratulations for your new daughter, i wich you an Happy life with her.

    We are waiting to adopt a little SN boy from Huainan, he will have 2 years monday.

    Severine in France

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