Thursday, April 12, 2012

Sight Seeing

The last few days has had its ups and downs...we expected there could be a little rejection, but we did not think it would be quite this hard.  Yesterday Paityn seemed to be so sad and depressed most of the day and we have had our share of crying spells!  She will definitely come to my Mom and me, but not Madison, Matt or my Dad.  It hurts me for Madison.  Please pray that the bonding between them would come quickly!!!  Madison has been such a trooper through this whole process.  We went to see a temple yesterday morning and just stopped by McDonalds for a quick lunch on our way back to the hotel.  We again went to the pool.  She has been scared to death to even walk in the pool area to a chair.  Got back to the room and went right to bed.  She has been sleeping real well through the night. 

This morning we went to breakfast then met our guide to head to the zoo.  At the beginning of the day she was really sad, so the driver said to our guide that he would join us at the zoo and try to cheer her up.  Between the two of them talking to her back and forth in a language I REALLY wish I would have learned, it worked!!!!  About half way through the zoo (after the panda picture below) she started to cheer up and smile more and more.  We came back and again got ready to go to the pool, this time we thought we would at least put her suit on to see what would happen.  It only took about a minute of being there that she had her feet in the water and 5 minutes later she was ALL THE WAY IN!!!! :)  We all started trying to make it real fun and she even started splashing  Matt, Madison and my Dad and giving high fives and blowing kisses!  What a turning point that was.  We went to a famous Noodle House for dinner, which was delicious, and she ate and ate and ate. 

Please continue to pray for Phoebe and her family.  She is still having a really hard time and has been asking to see Paityn over the past couple of days.  It didn't bother Paityn too much the first couple days, but now when she sees Phoebe so upset, Paityn starts to really cry.  It breaks my heart for both of them.  We know that this is all going to just take time, and the Lord will get us all through.

Tomorrow we receive her passport and will be flying to Guangzhou in the evening, so I will not be able to post again until Saturday.  Thank you again for following along.



Enjoying and ice cream cone at McDonalds


Our driver Mr. Cheng who was a huge help



Giant panda Bing Bing


Madison & Paityn (not too happy...yet) in front of Bing Bing


Paityn's 1st swim and she did great!


Madison showing off her chopstick skills

5 comments:

  1. I am so sorry that Paityn is having a tough time, but she seems to be coming along just fine. It is to be expected that she would "mourn" for her friends and all that she has known. The driver going to the zoo with you and talking to her was such a nice thing for him to do. I hope every day gets better. I feel for Phoebe and hope she is doing better each day.

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  2. Praying today for Phoebe and for Paityn and all of you. Praise God for your driver! Isn't that amazing that God placed him there for Paityn? So sweet. I am loving reading your updates and seeing the progress through pictures. Keep 'em coming!:)

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  3. I just found your blog from another. Congratulations on your adoption. YOur daughter is beautiful!

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  4. Still praying for you! A couple of the girls are very faithful to bring you all up daily to pray in front of the class! Miss Madi LOTS!!! Just not the same in our daily walks... :-( but glad for this time for you!

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  5. We are praying for all of you! I was excited to show Zach the blog until he informed me that he had seen some of the pictures in class already, LOL!

    This post made me cry for all of the emotions every one of you must be feeling.

    ~Angel

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